A cool way to improve Verbal Abuse in Marriage - 7 Realities About Verbal Emotional Abuse
I hear habitancy say, "My partner is controlling and he puts me down." Then they add, "It is abusive, but it's only verbal."
Verbal Abuse in Marriage - 7 Realities About Verbal Emotional Abuse
The inquire I have is, how do you feel about that? How does it make you feel when spoken to as he/she does? And how do feel about yourself in relation to your partner?
The impact and the import of the verbal abuse and controlling behavior, while being personal, will invariably be destructive.
Here are some hard-core facts that you will want to know about verbal abuse. So when you catch yourself saying, "...it's only verbal," reconsider this...
1) Verbal emotional abuse is a disregard for self and other.
2) Verbal abuse leaves memory magnets of prolonged self and other loathing.
3) Verbal emotional abuse undermines the inherent for mutual respect and trust.
4) Verbal and emotional abuse go in one direction-they escalate over time when the incredible outcome of being abusive is not accomplished.
5) The article of the verbal abuse is not about you; rather it is more about the abuser.
6) Verbal and emotional abuse doesn't stop on its own without appropriate intervention.
7) The tendency toward domestic abuse can pass from one generation to the next.
If you are in a connection in which your partner belittles you, undermines you, manipulates you, puts you down, calls you names, smoothers your will, then take a hard and honest look at your relationship. Seek to understand the dynamics of emotional verbal abuse and how you can interrupt this vicious cycle. The sooner you do, the happier you'll be.
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